Friday, July 11, 2008
Honestly, i have been thinking about what to blog about besides my oh-so-boring life.
But, i am rather scared that i might bored the readers.
Hmm~ Not much people would like to read about those things. ( My thinking )
Blah Blah Blah
Okay.
I decide to blog about human beings.
Erh.
I mean the nature of us.
Let's take an example of how we view others.
Alright, i mean my own example:
For example, we saw an old woman having her dinner with her daughter and husband.
She had her smelly feet up on the chair and her butt on another chair. While her daughter was giving her a "put-down-your-leg lah" expression and her husband was sitting two seats away from her.
What would be our thinking?
Yeah. I admit. My thinking at that point was
"Walao. What's this? Put your smelly feet so high-up. See lah. Even your husband and daughter cannot stand it. Tsk."
*Another part of my mind*
"Eh. Why her daughter like that? She's her own mom. She had feed and watch her grow up. How could she give that kind of look to her? So unfilial. Her husband worst lah."
Okay. So no matter what.
At that point of time, i am rather annoyed by the scene. (Note: I am having dinner too)
A few minutes later
I saw the old woman rubbing and messaging her feet. Her expression tells that she's in pain.
So, the woman had some problem with her leg.
That's the reason why she's sitting in such an improper way.
Moral:
Never judge a thing by its cover.
Isn't it human nature to look at things by its cover?
Maybe i am too kpo or i m thinking too much.
But, we can always take another example.
For a boy-girl example, we do look at one another's outer look first.
From the outer look, we always give them points.
As in, if this girl is good-looking, i maybe abit more friendly to her or i might be alittle happy to talk to her.
Dun deny. I guess it happens to almost all the human beings in the world.
Yeah. I admit. I am one of them.
BUT.
I must say.
After the first look, what matters the most is the heart beneath them.
I am not talking about a 100% good-person heart.
But, one that contains love, sincerity.
The character is what that makes up the whole thing.
So, try to look at things in a different manner or for a longer time.
What we saw and interpret at the very first might be very different as the time goes by.